[ad] 1) If it takes men two to five minutes of direct stimulation to have an orgasm, the average female needs about 20 minutes of direct stimulation. So as much as tend to speed things up, the onus is to be patient and hold off your own pleasure for as long as you can. 2) Women also experience the “blue balls”. Yup, it’s the dreaded blue balls that we men painfully experience now and…